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Friday, April 25, 2008
Is he using me for sex?
Submitted on Wednesday, April 23, 2008
By Kiley, 20, from Florida:
Okay so I have a question. I have sorta been seeing this guy on and off for a month..we're "messing around in bed" and stuff..however, he said he doesn't want a relationship.. he wants to take it slow. Is he using me for sex or does he just really want to take it slow?
VictorM's advice:
He's being perfectly clear with you: he doesn't want a relationship. I don't think he's using sex for anything. He just likes to fuck you.
You are having sex with him of your own free will. If you are doing it expecting him to get into a relationship with you, you're the one using sex.
Having sex with a guy who wants to take is slow will most likely get you nowhere.
By Kiley, 20, from Florida:
Okay so I have a question. I have sorta been seeing this guy on and off for a month..we're "messing around in bed" and stuff..however, he said he doesn't want a relationship.. he wants to take it slow. Is he using me for sex or does he just really want to take it slow?
VictorM's advice:
He's being perfectly clear with you: he doesn't want a relationship. I don't think he's using sex for anything. He just likes to fuck you.
You are having sex with him of your own free will. If you are doing it expecting him to get into a relationship with you, you're the one using sex.
Having sex with a guy who wants to take is slow will most likely get you nowhere.
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