So quite a while back, i wrote you asking if i should tell this guy how i felt eventhough he had a girlfriend. Well, i found out he was going to be leaving not too long ater that and that he would be gone for quite a while. So i still hadn't mustered up the courage to tell him eventhough i knew that he knew and at times it seemed like he was practically begging me to tell him how i felt. So on our last day together before he would be gone, i said goodbye but before i was even on the elevator, he started texting me. he kept this up for the rest of the day and he was saying things about how he was confused and had a lot to figure out. well, that night he asked if we could talk so of course i said yes. He called me and asked what all our time together had meant to me. So i spilled it, i told him everything and he told me he and his girlfriend had broken up and he was thinking about if he and i could be together. So we talked over the next few days and 4 days later he told me he was trying to work things out with his ex and couldn't talk to me for a while. That was over a month ago and he still won't talk to me. I know i didn't do anything wrong because he asked me to tell him how i felt but i cant help but feel like it's my fault. we were always friends before anything else, so why can't we at least still be that?

VictorM's advice:

Your confession changed the dynamics of the relationship. He may still come back and reach out to you as a friend but chances are that your relationship will never the same again.