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Sunday, April 20, 2008
I think that he was happy to see me
Submitted on Thursday, April 17, 2008
By alisa, 30, from virginia:
My ex and I have not not seen each other in a couple of months. We made arrangements to meet. I went over to his place and we had a really wonderful time. I think that he was happy to see me. He acted nervous at first, but then he stared and when I looked up he acted like he wasn't looking. We then went out to lunch and had a lovely time. It seemed like old times again. Do you think that he could still have felings for me or was he just enjoying my company? I do want him back, but I want to know if he's stil interested. I'm scared to come out and ask him. HELP
VictorM's advice:
If everything is so wonderful, why did you breakup? There had to be a reason. What makes you think those reasons won't come back? Chances are that unless something drastic happened during those two months you were away from each other, the problem will return.
Sometimes it's easier to get along when you're not committed or when you're in your best behavior to make sure everything goes well. Unfortunately, very few people have the energy to make that last a lifetime.
He may be testing the waters for a reconciliation but it could be just another step in confirming that moving on is the right thing to do. If you don't have the courage to ask for a reconciliation, wait for him to do it. If that's what he's after, he will ask you. For now, what's the rush? Just enjoy his company.
By alisa, 30, from virginia:
My ex and I have not not seen each other in a couple of months. We made arrangements to meet. I went over to his place and we had a really wonderful time. I think that he was happy to see me. He acted nervous at first, but then he stared and when I looked up he acted like he wasn't looking. We then went out to lunch and had a lovely time. It seemed like old times again. Do you think that he could still have felings for me or was he just enjoying my company? I do want him back, but I want to know if he's stil interested. I'm scared to come out and ask him. HELP
VictorM's advice:
If everything is so wonderful, why did you breakup? There had to be a reason. What makes you think those reasons won't come back? Chances are that unless something drastic happened during those two months you were away from each other, the problem will return.
Sometimes it's easier to get along when you're not committed or when you're in your best behavior to make sure everything goes well. Unfortunately, very few people have the energy to make that last a lifetime.
He may be testing the waters for a reconciliation but it could be just another step in confirming that moving on is the right thing to do. If you don't have the courage to ask for a reconciliation, wait for him to do it. If that's what he's after, he will ask you. For now, what's the rush? Just enjoy his company.
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