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Wednesday, April 30, 2008
I should not have asked him to lunch
Submitted on Monday, April 28, 2008
By Nita, 40, from OK:
Victor: I read your response http://argville.com/2008/04/dress-to-impress.html . I couldn't decide what I should wear and called a friend of mine. She provided comments (not on what to wear, or hairdo) but that, in her opinion, I should not have asked him to lunch - that if he is interested, he should ask me out. I was a bit surprised by her outburst and now I'm having second thoughts...can you shed light on this?
VictorM's advice:
I think your friend would be right if the guy had been showing the desire to ask you out, but if I remember correctly, he hasn't. So, what are you to do? Wait for a call that may never come?
Maybe he's not interested in you yet, maybe he never will, but by having lunch with him you give yourself the opportunity to impress him. You're taking the initiative and making things happen.
I think you should go to lunch with him.
By Nita, 40, from OK:
Victor: I read your response http://argville.com/2008/04
VictorM's advice:
I think your friend would be right if the guy had been showing the desire to ask you out, but if I remember correctly, he hasn't. So, what are you to do? Wait for a call that may never come?
Maybe he's not interested in you yet, maybe he never will, but by having lunch with him you give yourself the opportunity to impress him. You're taking the initiative and making things happen.
I think you should go to lunch with him.
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