Tuesday, April 29, 2008
I feel like I am right back to square one
Submitted on Sunday, April 27, 2008
By Angie, 29, from New York:
I started working at new job about 11 months ago and one of the guys there was really friendly and we hit it off. I never told him that I had a boyfriend and he never told me that he was engaged. Well after dating a few weeks he tells me about her and I totall y lose interest in him but he was determinted for us to stay friends since we worked with each other. Well one thing lead to another and we began sleeping with each other and I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now his girlfriend that he is engaged to calls me at my job demanding to know what's going on between us because she is 8 months pregnant (another thing he failed to tell me). So I end up getting back with my boyfriend and stop talking to him for good. Well we started talking again and having sex and I feel like I am right back to square one. I work with him and I have a really great job I don't want to have to quit a good job to try an break things off for good with this guy. I feel like he just wants me for sex. He claims he can never leave his girlfriend because they have 2 kids together but he just wants me to stick around for what. I don't know what to do.
VictorM's advice:
It's obvious he just wants you for sex. It's obvious he's a liar. It's obvious that neither one of you have much consideration for others. It's obvious you're both cheaters. Consequently, it's doubtful that you'll do the right thing. But you know what the right thing to do is. You just don't have the willpower to do it.
You've made this bed and you're sleeping in it of your own free will. No one else can get you out of it but yourself.
By Angie, 29, from New York:
I started working at new job about 11 months ago and one of the guys there was really friendly and we hit it off. I never told him that I had a boyfriend and he never told me that he was engaged. Well after dating a few weeks he tells me about her and I totall y lose interest in him but he was determinted for us to stay friends since we worked with each other. Well one thing lead to another and we began sleeping with each other and I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now his girlfriend that he is engaged to calls me at my job demanding to know what's going on between us because she is 8 months pregnant (another thing he failed to tell me). So I end up getting back with my boyfriend and stop talking to him for good. Well we started talking again and having sex and I feel like I am right back to square one. I work with him and I have a really great job I don't want to have to quit a good job to try an break things off for good with this guy. I feel like he just wants me for sex. He claims he can never leave his girlfriend because they have 2 kids together but he just wants me to stick around for what. I don't know what to do.
VictorM's advice:
It's obvious he just wants you for sex. It's obvious he's a liar. It's obvious that neither one of you have much consideration for others. It's obvious you're both cheaters. Consequently, it's doubtful that you'll do the right thing. But you know what the right thing to do is. You just don't have the willpower to do it.
You've made this bed and you're sleeping in it of your own free will. No one else can get you out of it but yourself.
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