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Wednesday, April 16, 2008
He never calls on the phone
Submitted on Tuesday, April 15, 2008
By michelle, 42, from middle east:
I met this man during my embed in Iraq. I am a journalist and he works there . We started emailing and met several times. We have been emailing for one year but he never calls on the phone. He even sent just an email when his flight got messed up when we were supposed to meet which left me in Jordan waiting for him for a day. I have mentioned this to him . He has called twice in this year period. His emails even say he loves me. Now..I divorced one and half years ago after being married for more than 20 years. This relationship that I am speaking of is the only one I have had since I divorced. I am afraid that I have not learned much and feel stuck . I do need the man I am involved with to call on occasion.
VictorM's advice:
Guys generally aren't very fond of using the phone. But twice in a year sounds scarce, specially since you made a point to mention it to him. Sounds like a sign that this man is not as attentive with you as you'd like.
If having a relationship with an attentive man is a priority for you, well... let your fingers do the walking and keep searching. The last thing you want to do is ignore troubling signs. After 20 years married, maybe you should shop around a little more anyway.
By michelle, 42, from middle east:
I met this man during my embed in Iraq. I am a journalist and he works there . We started emailing and met several times. We have been emailing for one year but he never calls on the phone. He even sent just an email when his flight got messed up when we were supposed to meet which left me in Jordan waiting for him for a day. I have mentioned this to him . He has called twice in this year period. His emails even say he loves me. Now..I divorced one and half years ago after being married for more than 20 years. This relationship that I am speaking of is the only one I have had since I divorced. I am afraid that I have not learned much and feel stuck . I do need the man I am involved with to call on occasion.
VictorM's advice:
Guys generally aren't very fond of using the phone. But twice in a year sounds scarce, specially since you made a point to mention it to him. Sounds like a sign that this man is not as attentive with you as you'd like.
If having a relationship with an attentive man is a priority for you, well... let your fingers do the walking and keep searching. The last thing you want to do is ignore troubling signs. After 20 years married, maybe you should shop around a little more anyway.
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