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Tuesday, April 29, 2008
He is the sweetest,most honest, respectful guy I have known
Submitted on Sunday, April 27, 2008
By bridget, 30, from us:
I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost a year. We live about 2 hours away from each other yet spend almost every weekend together. He is the sweetest, most honest, respectful guy I have known. Yet it's bugging me he hasn't said that he loves me. Maybe he's afraid because he has been hurt before. I don't know. After a year should I tell him that I love him or keep waiting for him?
VictorM's advice:
If you feel that way about him, sure, tell him you love him.
There's a chance that he'll tell you he loves you too, and a chance he won't say it back. Either way, after almost a year, you ought to know where you both stand on the issue. And if he has some other reason for not saying the words, you have a right to know what that reason is.
By bridget, 30, from us:
I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost a year. We live about 2 hours away from each other yet spend almost every weekend together. He is the sweetest, most honest, respectful guy I have known. Yet it's bugging me he hasn't said that he loves me. Maybe he's afraid because he has been hurt before. I don't know. After a year should I tell him that I love him or keep waiting for him?
VictorM's advice:
If you feel that way about him, sure, tell him you love him.
There's a chance that he'll tell you he loves you too, and a chance he won't say it back. Either way, after almost a year, you ought to know where you both stand on the issue. And if he has some other reason for not saying the words, you have a right to know what that reason is.
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