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Wednesday, March 26, 2008
I met a great guy this weekend
Submitted on Tuesday, March 25, 2008
By Kelly, 23, from MN:
I met a great guy this weekend and we danced all night, he ended up giving me his number so I text him that night casually and asked him if he would like to hang out soon. He said yes so I called him a few days later. We talked about doing something this week but he said he might be going out of town but would let me know. He did say though he wanted to hang out if he stays home. He was supposed to leave today if he was going and I haven't heard from him. I was wondering if it is to "pushy" if I text him tomorrow casually to see what he is up too? Should I just wait or do guys like it when girls take the initative?
VictorM's advice:
It all depends on your intentions. If what you want above all is a date for the weekend, by all means call him. If what you want is to find out if he really is as great as you think he is then wait to see if he calls you and shows you the consideration you deserve.
By Kelly, 23, from MN:
I met a great guy this weekend and we danced all night, he ended up giving me his number so I text him that night casually and asked him if he would like to hang out soon. He said yes so I called him a few days later. We talked about doing something this week but he said he might be going out of town but would let me know. He did say though he wanted to hang out if he stays home. He was supposed to leave today if he was going and I haven't heard from him. I was wondering if it is to "pushy" if I text him tomorrow casually to see what he is up too? Should I just wait or do guys like it when girls take the initative?
VictorM's advice:
It all depends on your intentions. If what you want above all is a date for the weekend, by all means call him. If what you want is to find out if he really is as great as you think he is then wait to see if he calls you and shows you the consideration you deserve.
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The nice thing about texting is, it's never THAT pushy. People can ignore a text if they want much more easily than they can ignore a phone call, so if he's out of town or legitimately busy and hasn't gotten around to calling you, he shouldn't feel rushed, and same goes if he's just taking his time for whatever reason (guys can be weird, that's why this site exists). Keep it as casual as possible and I think you'll be ok.
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