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Friday, March 21, 2008
How do I get him to miss me back?
Submitted on Thursday, March 20, 2008
By kelsey, 14, from mississippi:
I went out with this guy i realllly liked. Then one night we went out to eat and he was acting strange. So whenever him and his family dropped me back off at home, i texted him saying "you don't act like you want to be with me anymore.." and he texted me back saying "Actually I do. I talk about you and me all the time about cody's party.." i said "i never went to that." He said: "yes you did, we made out. duh" i said no that was another girl, we weren't going out then. He said "OMG. wrong person sorry." So apparently he was texting another girl. Later that night, he said he just wanted to be friends.
I want him back, horribly bad. But he said he wants to see if he misses me. I have been crying for the past two days because of it.. how do I get him to miss me back?
Thanks! :)
VictorM's answer:
Whether he misses you or not is totally out of your hands now. But anyway, saying he wants to see if he misses you is just a lame excuse.
Anyway, even if you can't make him miss you, you can make him wish he was with you. How? Wipe away the tears and start doing things you really enjoy doing. A girl who is active, happy, and enjoying herself is the biggest attraction to guys. Conversely, one who is sullen and sad is a big turn off.
So go out there and show the world your smile and sunny disposition. If you do, this boy, and many others, will be crawling all over you.
By kelsey, 14, from mississippi:
I went out with this guy i realllly liked. Then one night we went out to eat and he was acting strange. So whenever him and his family dropped me back off at home, i texted him saying "you don't act like you want to be with me anymore.." and he texted me back saying "Actually I do. I talk about you and me all the time about cody's party.." i said "i never went to that." He said: "yes you did, we made out. duh" i said no that was another girl, we weren't going out then. He said "OMG. wrong person sorry." So apparently he was texting another girl. Later that night, he said he just wanted to be friends.
I want him back, horribly bad. But he said he wants to see if he misses me. I have been crying for the past two days because of it.. how do I get him to miss me back?
Thanks! :)
VictorM's answer:
Whether he misses you or not is totally out of your hands now. But anyway, saying he wants to see if he misses you is just a lame excuse.
Anyway, even if you can't make him miss you, you can make him wish he was with you. How? Wipe away the tears and start doing things you really enjoy doing. A girl who is active, happy, and enjoying herself is the biggest attraction to guys. Conversely, one who is sullen and sad is a big turn off.
So go out there and show the world your smile and sunny disposition. If you do, this boy, and many others, will be crawling all over you.
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That's right, Kelsey. Turn on the smile! It's what society expects of you! There don't you feel better already? Yeah, I didn't think so.
Look, it's OK to be sad for a while. You cry because you care. Nothing wrong with that. You're just being honest with yourself. Don't keep that stuff bottled up, OK? But you'll get over this little player sooner rather than later. You're young, you'll bounce back. I promise. :)
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Look, it's OK to be sad for a while. You cry because you care. Nothing wrong with that. You're just being honest with yourself. Don't keep that stuff bottled up, OK? But you'll get over this little player sooner rather than later. You're young, you'll bounce back. I promise. :)
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