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Thursday, March 27, 2008
Here's where it gets tricky
Submitted on Wednesday, March 26, 2008
By Leigh, 38, from Canada:
Ok....Not exactly sure if this is it but I started dating a man last April...We ended it but remained friends. Here's where it gets tricky! We haven't ended it so much so that he invites me to his place...and out with his friends...yes ..sometimes we are still intimate while other times...we just cuddle for the night :S...We talk just about everyday through msn or texting. Heres the part that I just don't understand...he knows I have fallen in love with him and he tells me that I should move along when I express how much it hurts me and yet when I do this...he is finding ways to let me know..he is thinking about me! Are we or aren't we this so called *friends with benefits*...please define this for me!
VictorM's advice:
Make no mistake about it: you are just friends with benefits.
Why does he say things that make you pause? Certainly not because he's in love with you. He just enjoys the attention he gets from you. It has nothing to do with his feelings towards you; he's just stroking his own ego.
By Leigh, 38, from Canada:
Ok....Not exactly sure if this is it but I started dating a man last April...We ended it but remained friends. Here's where it gets tricky! We haven't ended it so much so that he invites me to his place...and out with his friends...yes ..sometimes we are still intimate while other times...we just cuddle for the night :S...We talk just about everyday through msn or texting. Heres the part that I just don't understand...he knows I have fallen in love with him and he tells me that I should move along when I express how much it hurts me and yet when I do this...he is finding ways to let me know..he is thinking about me! Are we or aren't we this so called *friends with benefits*...please define this for me!
VictorM's advice:
Make no mistake about it: you are just friends with benefits.
Why does he say things that make you pause? Certainly not because he's in love with you. He just enjoys the attention he gets from you. It has nothing to do with his feelings towards you; he's just stroking his own ego.
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