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Sunday, March 23, 2008
Confidential To Anonymous from Valencia
What were you trying to accomplish with that email to him? Your purpose was not clear to me.
I don't think the email was cruel but I would interpret it as you not wanting to be friends anymore. I say that because of your beginning. I read "I was hoping..." to mean that you are no longer hoping.
To answer your question... in a situation like this, girls are more likely to want to keep some contact; guys are more likely to want to break that contact and move on. Sounds like that's what he's doing. It's for the best. Holding on to friendship when feelings are or have been involved only complicates life.
I don't think the email was cruel but I would interpret it as you not wanting to be friends anymore. I say that because of your beginning. I read "I was hoping..." to mean that you are no longer hoping.
To answer your question... in a situation like this, girls are more likely to want to keep some contact; guys are more likely to want to break that contact and move on. Sounds like that's what he's doing. It's for the best. Holding on to friendship when feelings are or have been involved only complicates life.
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The message is a response to the silent treatment he's been giving me. We've never dated but we used to talk a lot. He would call me/help me with homework/give me rides all the time. I had to cancel a coffee date/meeting with him (I didn't give him a reason for the cancelation) and he just became different. He didn't reply to that email. Could he be jealous/insecure? I genuinely want to keep in contact. What do I do?
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