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Saturday, February 23, 2008
We started to connect and then he freaked out
Submitted on Thursday, February 21, 2008
By Erica, 26, from Arizona:
I have known this guy for 8 months. We started to connect and then he freaked out and said he didn't want to lead me on. In January of this year we started dating and as of now, one month later in February, he said he is unsure of his feelings (again). I'm tired of this emotional roller coaster with him. I have intense feelings for him but haven't shared them because I don't want to get hurt. A lot of people tell me to share them because he doesn't know unless I share them. My question is that why is he unsure of how he feels again when it's clear the chemistry is there and how we are around each other (hugging, kissing, not sleeping together) is very real?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know the real motivation for his doubts, but I see no point in you not sharing your feelings openly.
Let him know exactly how intense your feelings for him are. It will either give him reassurance or scare the hell out of him. Either way, you're bound to get a better result than the emotional roller coaster you're riding.
By Erica, 26, from Arizona:
I have known this guy for 8 months. We started to connect and then he freaked out and said he didn't want to lead me on. In January of this year we started dating and as of now, one month later in February, he said he is unsure of his feelings (again). I'm tired of this emotional roller coaster with him. I have intense feelings for him but haven't shared them because I don't want to get hurt. A lot of people tell me to share them because he doesn't know unless I share them. My question is that why is he unsure of how he feels again when it's clear the chemistry is there and how we are around each other (hugging, kissing, not sleeping together) is very real?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know the real motivation for his doubts, but I see no point in you not sharing your feelings openly.
Let him know exactly how intense your feelings for him are. It will either give him reassurance or scare the hell out of him. Either way, you're bound to get a better result than the emotional roller coaster you're riding.
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