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Tuesday, February 19, 2008
We kept talking and ended up having cyber sex
Submitted on Sunday, February 17, 2008
By danni, 19, from melbourne:
I have been flirting with this guy on msn for like 1 year and met him a couple of times but as friends. He's in another country but we kept talking and ended up having cyber sex and getting really close but it seems like he doesn't want to commit. He likes me but has major ex baggage so I finally told him I like him and he said: "I like you more than a friend less than a lover" and he still maintains his friendship with me and wants to meet up when we are in the same place but he has gotten distant. What did he mean by what he said, is he into me? I also said I'm gonna move away from this and he said not to, to wait and see where it leads.
VictorM's advice:
Come on, you only chat online and met a couple times. Why expect him to want to commit or declare that he's in love? His answers make sense. You're the one putting the cart ahead of the horse and trying to turn an online acquaintance into some sort of serious relationship.
If and when you ever wind up in the same place, then look into developing something more serious with him. For now, and since this guy is virtual, keep it a fun fantasy but don't let it stop you from meeting guys that you can touch, taste, and smell.
By danni, 19, from melbourne:
I have been flirting with this guy on msn for like 1 year and met him a couple of times but as friends. He's in another country but we kept talking and ended up having cyber sex and getting really close but it seems like he doesn't want to commit. He likes me but has major ex baggage so I finally told him I like him and he said: "I like you more than a friend less than a lover" and he still maintains his friendship with me and wants to meet up when we are in the same place but he has gotten distant. What did he mean by what he said, is he into me? I also said I'm gonna move away from this and he said not to, to wait and see where it leads.
VictorM's advice:
Come on, you only chat online and met a couple times. Why expect him to want to commit or declare that he's in love? His answers make sense. You're the one putting the cart ahead of the horse and trying to turn an online acquaintance into some sort of serious relationship.
If and when you ever wind up in the same place, then look into developing something more serious with him. For now, and since this guy is virtual, keep it a fun fantasy but don't let it stop you from meeting guys that you can touch, taste, and smell.
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