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Wednesday, February 20, 2008
He has met another girl
Submitted on Tuesday, February 19, 2008
By Cordelia, 30, from Berlin:
I started seeing a guy who lives in another country. It's a long distance relationship. He comes to visit quite a lot for work purposes. A few weeks ago he said that he has met another girl. We met last week and picked up our relationship again for the few days he was here. However, he told me that he wants to pursue the thing with the other girl. The problem is that I already booked my flight to go and see him and I am quite heartbroken. I was supposed to stay with him for 9 days. Now I don't think I can stay with him. The flight was expensive as well. What do I do?
VictorM's advice:
Wow, that sucks! Yeah, you can't stay with him.
If this is a place you've always wanted to see, go and stay at a hotel. Maybe a friend can come along to keep you company.
Is there a way you can get a refund? If not, is there a way you can transfer to visit another place?
By Cordelia, 30, from Berlin:
I started seeing a guy who lives in another country. It's a long distance relationship. He comes to visit quite a lot for work purposes. A few weeks ago he said that he has met another girl. We met last week and picked up our relationship again for the few days he was here. However, he told me that he wants to pursue the thing with the other girl. The problem is that I already booked my flight to go and see him and I am quite heartbroken. I was supposed to stay with him for 9 days. Now I don't think I can stay with him. The flight was expensive as well. What do I do?
VictorM's advice:
Wow, that sucks! Yeah, you can't stay with him.
If this is a place you've always wanted to see, go and stay at a hotel. Maybe a friend can come along to keep you company.
Is there a way you can get a refund? If not, is there a way you can transfer to visit another place?
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Did he know that you'd already booked your flight? When he decided to start something with this other girl? If so, then I'd ask him to pay you back for half the airfare.
But if you bought the ticket just banking on a "possibility" or "hope" that he'd want you there for 9 days, then...you are SOL.
But 9 days? Sounds like something you BOTH planned. And now...he's screwed it up. He owes you at least 1/2 the airfare, wouldn't you say?
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But if you bought the ticket just banking on a "possibility" or "hope" that he'd want you there for 9 days, then...you are SOL.
But 9 days? Sounds like something you BOTH planned. And now...he's screwed it up. He owes you at least 1/2 the airfare, wouldn't you say?
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