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Wednesday, February 27, 2008
A guy asked me out for coffee
Submitted on Monday, February 25, 2008
By Sara, 21, from Valencia, CA:
A guy asked me out for coffee. We've known each other for 6 months already. I asked him out a week earlier but I had to cancel it because of school work. The appointment/date was very fun and casual. He then said he wanted to know where I would end up in medical school AND that maybe we should do this again sometimes. I stated to him jokingly that earlier I called/emailed/texted him with no replies. He laugh, said he gets that all the time, and we left each other (a girl he "tutors" picked him up). I called him 3 days after the coffee. It's been a day since the call--no replies. Albeit I was being a little confrontational, but shouldn't he call me back? What should I do now? We've always been good friends/ talked all the time/ he calls be back right away but now he's distant/seems to ignore my calls and at the date he was bragging about a publication and perhaps leaving for Paris for a year.
VictorM's advice:
I'm going to assume that what you meant was "shouldn't he call me back if he was interested in me?" Um... probably. A little deductive reasoning should give you a clue about his state of mind.
Why should he have called back? He's free not to and you're free to reach your own conclusions.
By Sara, 21, from Valencia, CA:
A guy asked me out for coffee. We've known each other for 6 months already. I asked him out a week earlier but I had to cancel it because of school work. The appointment/date was very fun and casual. He then said he wanted to know where I would end up in medical school AND that maybe we should do this again sometimes. I stated to him jokingly that earlier I called/emailed/texted him with no replies. He laugh, said he gets that all the time, and we left each other (a girl he "tutors" picked him up). I called him 3 days after the coffee. It's been a day since the call--no replies. Albeit I was being a little confrontational, but shouldn't he call me back? What should I do now? We've always been good friends/ talked all the time/ he calls be back right away but now he's distant/seems to ignore my calls and at the date he was bragging about a publication and perhaps leaving for Paris for a year.
VictorM's advice:
I'm going to assume that what you meant was "shouldn't he call me back if he was interested in me?" Um... probably. A little deductive reasoning should give you a clue about his state of mind.
Why should he have called back? He's free not to and you're free to reach your own conclusions.
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