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Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Why would my soon to be ex be calling me for phone sex?
Submitted on Monday, January 21, 2008
By Kim, 40, from Houston:
Why would my soon to be ex be calling me for phone sex when he is supposedly into a new woman and relationship and has asked me for a divorce? He lives in the UK and we returned to the US and he continues to call me, even from her house! HELP = what does this mean?
VictorM's advice:
It means you're divorcing a weasel and a scoundrel.
Don't go thinking that somehow he's still so hooked on you and he just can't live without you. Your ego might want to believe that, but you'd be wrong. For most guys, sex, phone or otherwise, can and does happen totally devoid of emotional attachment. Guys can get horny on a dime. Just like that. And if a phone call to you brings some relief, well, a phone call to you it is. It's that simple. There's no other meaning do any of it.
Stop participating in his shenanigans. Don't take the calls.
By Kim, 40, from Houston:
Why would my soon to be ex be calling me for phone sex when he is supposedly into a new woman and relationship and has asked me for a divorce? He lives in the UK and we returned to the US and he continues to call me, even from her house! HELP = what does this mean?
VictorM's advice:
It means you're divorcing a weasel and a scoundrel.
Don't go thinking that somehow he's still so hooked on you and he just can't live without you. Your ego might want to believe that, but you'd be wrong. For most guys, sex, phone or otherwise, can and does happen totally devoid of emotional attachment. Guys can get horny on a dime. Just like that. And if a phone call to you brings some relief, well, a phone call to you it is. It's that simple. There's no other meaning do any of it.
Stop participating in his shenanigans. Don't take the calls.
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