i didnt know he was on this site...so was a bit shocked to see him there i can tell you!! anyway....he added me to his hotlist and kept viewing my profile....up until the day when my photos appeared. since then he's viewed my profile a few times again.

i went out on a date the other night and got on with this guy really well....so when i got home i changed my status message on facebook to say that i think i may have actually met someone who could keep up with me....

the old guy messaged me straight away....asking about the other guy and saying that if he could keep up with me then he must be doing well haha!! i replied just saying yeah he is...happy days haha!!

now...firstly....why visit my profile after he knew it was me?? if he wanted to just cut ties with me? and why message me about my facebook status message??

i did really like him...as you know...and i know i messed up a bit at the start....but i don't really understand him!! also....could you tell me why he would tell me that he was deleting my number....and ask me if that was ok? that i REALLY don't understand...

thank you !! xxx

VictorM's answer:

He doesn't like you but that doesn't mean he doesn't want you to like him. His narcissistic nature wants you to want him. It's all an ego thing. None of what he did was a reflection of how he feels about you. If you think it is, you'd be wrong.