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Monday, January 28, 2008
We don't have any problems except for his ex, part 4
Submitted on Thursday, January 24, 2008
By Anonymous, 17, from NJ:
This is "we dont have any problems except for his ex" girl.. part 4.
My boyfriend (well ex now) has been talking to me gradually lately. He still meets me at my locker the way he used to, still texts me and talks to me for comfort. I have been trying to meet other guys, but I still have feelings for him. He wants to be friends with benefits..and I don't know if I should. I DON'T want him getting laid by his ex as a last resort, but I'd just feel so used.. I'm a really sensitive girl and while I do enjoy his presense more than anyone else's.. I think it will be heartbreak all over again. But maybe not? Who knows.. it's just sex right?
VictorM's advice:
To him it is just sex, to you, no. After all, you don't want him getting laid by his ex. Why not, if it's just sex? That's because you don't think that sex can be just sex.
You're making a big mistake if you have sex with this guy because if you do he'll never think of you as anyone worth anything more than sex. In essence, you'd be screwing up any chance of getting back together with him.
If he asks for friends with benefits again, tell him to go fuck himself.
By Anonymous, 17, from NJ:
This is "we dont have any problems except for his ex" girl.. part 4.
My boyfriend (well ex now) has been talking to me gradually lately. He still meets me at my locker the way he used to, still texts me and talks to me for comfort. I have been trying to meet other guys, but I still have feelings for him. He wants to be friends with benefits..and I don't know if I should. I DON'T want him getting laid by his ex as a last resort, but I'd just feel so used.. I'm a really sensitive girl and while I do enjoy his presense more than anyone else's.. I think it will be heartbreak all over again. But maybe not? Who knows.. it's just sex right?
VictorM's advice:
To him it is just sex, to you, no. After all, you don't want him getting laid by his ex. Why not, if it's just sex? That's because you don't think that sex can be just sex.
You're making a big mistake if you have sex with this guy because if you do he'll never think of you as anyone worth anything more than sex. In essence, you'd be screwing up any chance of getting back together with him.
If he asks for friends with benefits again, tell him to go fuck himself.
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