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Thursday, January 10, 2008
It's the blowjob girl again
Submitted on Wednesday, January 09, 2008
By Griz, 24, from Miami, Fl:
Hey, it's the blowjob girl again. :)
I think I may still be in the game. I told him straight up that I don't do that type of thing on first dates. In fact, I can count on one hand how many guys I've given a blow to (didn't tell him that). I was honest, straightforward, and asked what exactly he was looking for. He said "a friend" or "a relationship." He asked and I told him what I'm looking for (an honest man that doesn't play games).
After that, we continued to converse on more lighter topics (favorites, books, music, etc.) And he messaged me today, though I have not read what he sent me. I'm keeping myself a little distanced for a bit, just to cool the whole thing off.
Now, my question is this: what now? Should I treat him as a friend? Should I treat him as an interest? Should we continue to see each other and do I go any further physically? Or should I hold off on that stuff and for how long?
Also, do I have the upper-hand just for the simple fact that I gave him a great blowjob? HAHAHA, just kidding. Sorta. But I do have to add that he said I was "something else."
Thanks in advance. :)
VictorM's advice:
Well... if it was that good AND you swallowed, you should get a ticker-tape parade down Collins Ave. :)
Griz, don't think too much about it. You like him, he obviously likes you, so just go with the flow. It is always wisest to make the guy work for your attention, but don't go overboard either. You need to give him time to get to know you better before you have sex in the car wash with him, but hey, you live in the foreign country of Miami, you can have sex anywhere, anytime, so I hear.
Anyway, you're a bit past the "just friends" stage, don't you think?
By Griz, 24, from Miami, Fl:
Hey, it's the blowjob girl again. :)
I think I may still be in the game. I told him straight up that I don't do that type of thing on first dates. In fact, I can count on one hand how many guys I've given a blow to (didn't tell him that). I was honest, straightforward, and asked what exactly he was looking for. He said "a friend" or "a relationship." He asked and I told him what I'm looking for (an honest man that doesn't play games).
After that, we continued to converse on more lighter topics (favorites, books, music, etc.) And he messaged me today, though I have not read what he sent me. I'm keeping myself a little distanced for a bit, just to cool the whole thing off.
Now, my question is this: what now? Should I treat him as a friend? Should I treat him as an interest? Should we continue to see each other and do I go any further physically? Or should I hold off on that stuff and for how long?
Also, do I have the upper-hand just for the simple fact that I gave him a great blowjob? HAHAHA, just kidding. Sorta. But I do have to add that he said I was "something else."
Thanks in advance. :)
VictorM's advice:
Well... if it was that good AND you swallowed, you should get a ticker-tape parade down Collins Ave. :)
Griz, don't think too much about it. You like him, he obviously likes you, so just go with the flow. It is always wisest to make the guy work for your attention, but don't go overboard either. You need to give him time to get to know you better before you have sex in the car wash with him, but hey, you live in the foreign country of Miami, you can have sex anywhere, anytime, so I hear.
Anyway, you're a bit past the "just friends" stage, don't you think?
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Maybe it's a little late to ask this question now but what is it with men and coming into a woman's mouth? I'll never get it. Why is it so hot for them to see the girl swallowing their "product"?!?!?
I don't know how many men think that's so great. My feelings is this is another one of those things that has been porn induced where women are generally portrayed as a pure sex object and often denigrated. Cumming in her mouth is a very graphic visual representation of that impression. And so, since it became popular in porn, it's becoming popular in society.
I guess to some guys swallowing is a sign of commitment or dedication on her part. That never made sense to me because I always figured if she swallows mine, she swallows every other guy's.
My reference to swallowing in my answer was an attempt at humor because the stereotype is that guys love their cars more than anything else and if she was willing to swallow that means not mess in the car, hence her being even more appreciated.
But I suspect Griz is either Cuban or Brazilian and those women are human vacuum cleaners. In other word, no fuss and no mess. (Yes, this is a joke!!)
I guess to some guys swallowing is a sign of commitment or dedication on her part. That never made sense to me because I always figured if she swallows mine, she swallows every other guy's.
My reference to swallowing in my answer was an attempt at humor because the stereotype is that guys love their cars more than anything else and if she was willing to swallow that means not mess in the car, hence her being even more appreciated.
But I suspect Griz is either Cuban or Brazilian and those women are human vacuum cleaners. In other word, no fuss and no mess. (Yes, this is a joke!!)
LMAO@Cuban or Brazilian. I'm actually of Central American descent. Born in Miami, parents from Central America. :P
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