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Saturday, January 19, 2008
I need to understand this man's motives
Submitted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008
By Jenna, 32, from Ohio:
I need to understand this man's motives. This may sound weird but I have a male gynecologist that I been seeing for 5 years. He always ask personal questions about my marriage and husband. He wants to know intimiate details and begs me to tell him. He always staring at me and seems very nervous around me. He wants to know my work schedule, habits, and etc... Why is he so curious? Is it just cause I am his patient or what? He is not disrespectful but rather very curious about me. I walked out the office feeling kinda confused.
VictorM's answer:
I have never been to a gynecologist so I don't know what questions are normal. There may be a reason for those questions, I just don't know.
But don't discount that just because the man has a doctor's diploma that he can't also be a pervert, a jerk, an asshole, etc.
Anyway, I hope visitors use the comments section below to share their own experiences with gynecologists in this regard.
By Jenna, 32, from Ohio:
I need to understand this man's motives. This may sound weird but I have a male gynecologist that I been seeing for 5 years. He always ask personal questions about my marriage and husband. He wants to know intimiate details and begs me to tell him. He always staring at me and seems very nervous around me. He wants to know my work schedule, habits, and etc... Why is he so curious? Is it just cause I am his patient or what? He is not disrespectful but rather very curious about me. I walked out the office feeling kinda confused.
VictorM's answer:
I have never been to a gynecologist so I don't know what questions are normal. There may be a reason for those questions, I just don't know.
But don't discount that just because the man has a doctor's diploma that he can't also be a pervert, a jerk, an asshole, etc.
Anyway, I hope visitors use the comments section below to share their own experiences with gynecologists in this regard.
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Jenna, unless there is some kind of physical problem that your gyn has noticed (bruising, tearing, etc.) that would make him ask detailed personal questions, you know, like maybe he's concerned for your safety, then he really shouldn't be asking these questions. There's nothing wrong with telling a Dr. to just "stick to business."
Or maybe he's just lonely. Or maybe he really really doesn't want to see the patient scheduled after you so he's killing time. Or maybe he's a psycho prevert who is secretly recording all your intimate conversations and getting off to it later. Whatever the reason, it's unprofessional behavior at best and sexual harrassment at worst.
This is why I have a female gyn. Those bitches don't wanna talk about nuthin! Have my tires rotated in no time.
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Or maybe he's just lonely. Or maybe he really really doesn't want to see the patient scheduled after you so he's killing time. Or maybe he's a psycho prevert who is secretly recording all your intimate conversations and getting off to it later. Whatever the reason, it's unprofessional behavior at best and sexual harrassment at worst.
This is why I have a female gyn. Those bitches don't wanna talk about nuthin! Have my tires rotated in no time.
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