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Monday, January 28, 2008

 

I am extroverted and wild sexually

Submitted on Friday, January 25, 2008
By V.ANN, 32, from IL:

I am extroverted and wild sexually but my guy is reserved. I try to make him feel more comfortable sexually but i think he is jealous or feels inferior to the men in my past. I believe he has resorted to online porn and maybe even cybersex to release his inhibitions. What do i do? Should I be worried??? Help

VictorM's advice:

I don't know if his attraction to porn is a reflection of him felling inferior about your past sex life. But maybe you're more interested in being wild than being a good sex partner. The two are not the same. A good sex partner pays attention to and caters to the desires and feelings of the other person.

Let me make it clear that I'm not doubting you being wild sexually; I'm just questioning if you're a good sex partner for him.

In any case, when porn is something that one of the partners isn't happy about, you have a problem.

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