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Wednesday, January 23, 2008
He's not ready for a serious relationship
Submitted on Sunday, January 20, 2008
By Sara, 20, from TN:
Well, I've liked this guy for about 2 years and just recently we've been hanging out and talking a lot. Every time he comes to my house to hang out, he stays for very long periods of time. Anyways, he has told me before that I was attractive and that I was an awesome person... Well, one of my friends ended up telling him that I liked him and he asked me if I really did, and I told him yes, but if he didn't like me that was fine, I didn't want to lose him as a friend. He told me that he loved hanging out with me and maybe one day but not now... Then he goes on to say that he's not ready for a serious relationship with someone that he really cares about! Was that just a way to let me down easy, or does he mean that he doesn't want to date me now because he could get serious about me?
VictorM's advice:
You're both quite young, which probably is a contributing factor for his words, but generally, guys are never ready for a relationship unless they feel that the girl is the right one. He's not there with you yet.
I wouldn't take it as letting you down; more as a step back and take it easy.
By Sara, 20, from TN:
Well, I've liked this guy for about 2 years and just recently we've been hanging out and talking a lot. Every time he comes to my house to hang out, he stays for very long periods of time. Anyways, he has told me before that I was attractive and that I was an awesome person... Well, one of my friends ended up telling him that I liked him and he asked me if I really did, and I told him yes, but if he didn't like me that was fine, I didn't want to lose him as a friend. He told me that he loved hanging out with me and maybe one day but not now... Then he goes on to say that he's not ready for a serious relationship with someone that he really cares about! Was that just a way to let me down easy, or does he mean that he doesn't want to date me now because he could get serious about me?
VictorM's advice:
You're both quite young, which probably is a contributing factor for his words, but generally, guys are never ready for a relationship unless they feel that the girl is the right one. He's not there with you yet.
I wouldn't take it as letting you down; more as a step back and take it easy.
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