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Monday, January 21, 2008
He never called me today.
Submitted on Sunday, January 20, 2008
By Sarah, 21, from Massachusetts:
I asked an ex (we broke up a few months ago) if he wanted to meet up and catch up. He said "that would be good." He knows that I still have feelings for him.
He was going to go drink with friends so I told him to tell me when he was free later and sober. He texted me later telling me that he would call me the next day (today) because he was pretty drunk.
But he never called me today.
Is this a "nice" way of him telling me that he doesn't want to meet up? Or am I looking too much into it?
VictorM's advice:
He never intended to meet with you. "That would be good" was simply his way of getting away from you without having to make you cry or appear rude.
Don't ask him again unless you want to hear more things that he doesn't mean but says them only because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
By Sarah, 21, from Massachusetts:
I asked an ex (we broke up a few months ago) if he wanted to meet up and catch up. He said "that would be good." He knows that I still have feelings for him.
He was going to go drink with friends so I told him to tell me when he was free later and sober. He texted me later telling me that he would call me the next day (today) because he was pretty drunk.
But he never called me today.
Is this a "nice" way of him telling me that he doesn't want to meet up? Or am I looking too much into it?
VictorM's advice:
He never intended to meet with you. "That would be good" was simply his way of getting away from you without having to make you cry or appear rude.
Don't ask him again unless you want to hear more things that he doesn't mean but says them only because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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Ouch. I wish you'd gotten back sooner because I made the mistake of contacting him.
I guess it's good to know the truth, sooner or later. (In this case...it's later).
I guess it's good to know the truth, sooner or later. (In this case...it's later).
# posted by 
: 9:11 AM
: 9:11 AM
It wasn't a mistake that you contacted him. There is a chance I was wrong about him but you'd never know that unless you gave it another shot.
This way, instead of always wondering what might have been, you will remove all doubt if he continues to be cordial but distant.
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This way, instead of always wondering what might have been, you will remove all doubt if he continues to be cordial but distant.
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