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Thursday, January 24, 2008
He is a coach so he is very busy
Submitted on Monday, January 21, 2008
By heather, 22, from pc beach florida:
I have a boyfriend who just turned 29 and he is a coach so he is very busy which I know this, but one day he told me he loves me and wants to marry me and then two days later he said: "I won't allow myself to let us work because my job will always be more important", but he said we aren't breaking up. What exactly does this mean??
VictorM's advice:
Sometimes people say they aren't afraid of heights when they are on solid ground, but when they get near an abyss, their knees will shake and they become consumed by fear. I think telling you about marriage brought him to the abyss and he realized how frightening the thought was, so he backed away from it.
At this point, you can only take him at his word that work is more important than you. It's your call if that's good enough for you.
By heather, 22, from pc beach florida:
I have a boyfriend who just turned 29 and he is a coach so he is very busy which I know this, but one day he told me he loves me and wants to marry me and then two days later he said: "I won't allow myself to let us work because my job will always be more important", but he said we aren't breaking up. What exactly does this mean??
VictorM's advice:
Sometimes people say they aren't afraid of heights when they are on solid ground, but when they get near an abyss, their knees will shake and they become consumed by fear. I think telling you about marriage brought him to the abyss and he realized how frightening the thought was, so he backed away from it.
At this point, you can only take him at his word that work is more important than you. It's your call if that's good enough for you.
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