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Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Everything was perfect
Submitted on Saturday, January 26, 2008
By Anonymous, 19, from missouri:
Does he want me back?
I was with this guy for about 2 years. Everything was perfect and we were even talking about marriage. About a year and a half into our relationship an old friend from high school started calling me. I had a lot of fun talking to him and decided to break up with my boyfriend for him. When we we were together all I could think of was my ex. I recently broke things off with him and I'm trying to get a second chance with my ex. The problem is I don't know if he wants to give me a second chance. He says he thinks we were meant to be together but also says it would be better if we were just friends from now on. We've been on one date since then that I thought went really well but it's been about 3 days since and he hasn't called me. What do you think?
VictorM's advice:
No, he doesn't want you back. That's not to say he won't take you back, but if he does, it'll be a sign of weakness.
You left him even when according to you, things were perfect. I'm sure he's wondering what will happen when things aren't so good, as from time to time, it's likely to happen?
To your credit, at least you didn't cheat. But dropping a serious boyfriend when things were perfect for some guy that you had fun with? Doesn't inspire trust or staying power, does it?
By Anonymous, 19, from missouri:
Does he want me back?
I was with this guy for about 2 years. Everything was perfect and we were even talking about marriage. About a year and a half into our relationship an old friend from high school started calling me. I had a lot of fun talking to him and decided to break up with my boyfriend for him. When we we were together all I could think of was my ex. I recently broke things off with him and I'm trying to get a second chance with my ex. The problem is I don't know if he wants to give me a second chance. He says he thinks we were meant to be together but also says it would be better if we were just friends from now on. We've been on one date since then that I thought went really well but it's been about 3 days since and he hasn't called me. What do you think?
VictorM's advice:
No, he doesn't want you back. That's not to say he won't take you back, but if he does, it'll be a sign of weakness.
You left him even when according to you, things were perfect. I'm sure he's wondering what will happen when things aren't so good, as from time to time, it's likely to happen?
To your credit, at least you didn't cheat. But dropping a serious boyfriend when things were perfect for some guy that you had fun with? Doesn't inspire trust or staying power, does it?
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