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Saturday, January 19, 2008
Does he like me or does he hate me?
Submitted on Thursday, January 17, 2008
By Sammy, 17, from Virginia:
By Sammy, 17, from Virginia:
I'm a senior in High School and there is this guy I've known since last year. Beginning of junior year we had math together and we sat next to each other. Second semester junior year I had history with him and we got to pick our own seats and I decided to sit next to him and his friend. I got to know about him, he's very studious and is dedicated to his sport and hopes to go to an Ivy league school. He's so focused into his studies and his sport that he never seems to be interested in anything but doing well in school.
All of last year he would tease me and he and his friend gave me a nick name which is suppose to mean unaware/clueless. I think one week I was really stressed out and I would space out in his direction and he thought I was staring at him (I wasn't). He would then stare at me really intensly to make fun of what he thought I did. After class, I would walk to my next class taking the same route as he and his friend and they would say that I was "following them." Some of the things they did hurt me, but strangely enough when I would walk with just him he would talk to me nicely and we would share some laughs. There were a couple of times he would tease me and I would tell him "stop it please" and he would later apologize and say he was kidding. I tried to get him to give me his email address when we were talking about a website and I asked him for his email, but he refused to give it to me. Looking back I think I was oversensitive to some of the stuff he said to me, but I'm not sure. I had a crush on him all of last year and I still do, but we aren't in the same classes. I see him talking to other girls and I immediately think that he likes them. If we see one another after school he'll give me a holler and we'll walk and talk together.
I'm so confused, whats going on here? Does he like me or does he hate me? I'm confused.
VictorM's answer:
Neither.
(I love these short answers).
All of last year he would tease me and he and his friend gave me a nick name which is suppose to mean unaware/clueless. I think one week I was really stressed out and I would space out in his direction and he thought I was staring at him (I wasn't). He would then stare at me really intensly to make fun of what he thought I did. After class, I would walk to my next class taking the same route as he and his friend and they would say that I was "following them." Some of the things they did hurt me, but strangely enough when I would walk with just him he would talk to me nicely and we would share some laughs. There were a couple of times he would tease me and I would tell him "stop it please" and he would later apologize and say he was kidding. I tried to get him to give me his email address when we were talking about a website and I asked him for his email, but he refused to give it to me. Looking back I think I was oversensitive to some of the stuff he said to me, but I'm not sure. I had a crush on him all of last year and I still do, but we aren't in the same classes. I see him talking to other girls and I immediately think that he likes them. If we see one another after school he'll give me a holler and we'll walk and talk together.
I'm so confused, whats going on here? Does he like me or does he hate me? I'm confused.
VictorM's answer:
Neither.
(I love these short answers).
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