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Wednesday, January 23, 2008

 

The difference between love, lust, and infatuation?

Submitted on Sunday, January 20, 2008
By Lucia, 16:

Hello,

VICTOR! My friend recommended this website for me if I had any problems. (: haha

Well, my question is, how do you know the difference between love, lust, and infatuation?
Like, I really like this person but I'm not so sure if it's love or if it's just my need or wanting for someone to cuddle with or talk to?

THANK YOU SO MUCH!

VictorM's advice:

You have a good friend. :)

OK, let's say you take your partner to an expensive restaurant and you order the Australian lobster tail, your favorite food. After tasting it you realize it's fantastic. Then he asks you to taste your lobster.

If you let him have a small bite, that's infatuation. If you decide to share half of your lobster with him, that's love.

And lust? Well, even if he had shrimp scampi with massive amounts of garlic, you'd still want to fuck him that night.

Comments:
I thought love means never having to say you're sorry. Wait...no. that's not quite right. Love means never having to say you're sorry for sharing half your lobster.
 
I'd give away all my lobster, just don't touch my steak!
 
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