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Wednesday, December 26, 2007
He is very busy with work, never has time for me
Submitted on Tuesday, December 25, 2007
By may, 33:
Hi Victor, I have been dating a wonderful guy for three months now. I started to love him more by knowing him. But the problem is he is very busy with work, never has time for me. I am not sure if he loves me the same way as I love him. He seems nice to me, but why never plan or do things for me? We even haven't celebrated the christmas together. I ask him if he can get me a christmas gift. He said ok but I guess he won't do it anyway. But he was willing spend time on sending gift to my parent for Christmas instead. Does it mean he doesn't care about me much? Does he really love me?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know if he loves you or not, but what difference does it make if he doesn't make time for you? If he loves you and doesn't show it, is that good enough for you?
You asked him for a Christmas gift? Why? Somehow if he's forced into buying you something you'll feel better? I don't know... women can be a royal pain in the ass sometimes with all the gift crap.
Anyway, I don't know if his life being so busy means he doesn't care about you, but it sure means you don't come first in his life. Only you can decide if that's good enough for you.
By may, 33:
Hi Victor, I have been dating a wonderful guy for three months now. I started to love him more by knowing him. But the problem is he is very busy with work, never has time for me. I am not sure if he loves me the same way as I love him. He seems nice to me, but why never plan or do things for me? We even haven't celebrated the christmas together. I ask him if he can get me a christmas gift. He said ok but I guess he won't do it anyway. But he was willing spend time on sending gift to my parent for Christmas instead. Does it mean he doesn't care about me much? Does he really love me?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know if he loves you or not, but what difference does it make if he doesn't make time for you? If he loves you and doesn't show it, is that good enough for you?
You asked him for a Christmas gift? Why? Somehow if he's forced into buying you something you'll feel better? I don't know... women can be a royal pain in the ass sometimes with all the gift crap.
Anyway, I don't know if his life being so busy means he doesn't care about you, but it sure means you don't come first in his life. Only you can decide if that's good enough for you.
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...women can be a royal pain in the ass sometimes with all the gift crap.
And men can be a royal pain in the ass by sometimes with all the complaining about something that they need to just accept as a fact of life! ;P
Women need little gifts, little gestures, in order to get reassurance that men think about them fondly at times other than happy naked time or dinner time.
Although personally? I prefer to just ask for his credit card so I can buy whatever the hell I want.
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And men can be a royal pain in the ass by sometimes with all the complaining about something that they need to just accept as a fact of life! ;P
Women need little gifts, little gestures, in order to get reassurance that men think about them fondly at times other than happy naked time or dinner time.
Although personally? I prefer to just ask for his credit card so I can buy whatever the hell I want.
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