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Thursday, December 27, 2007
I have met the loveliest guy
Submitted on Thursday, December 27, 2007
By Claire, 32, from London:
I have met the loveliest guy, we have been on 3 dates and we got on great. He told me his last girlfriend cheated on him and he wanted to take things slow as he was still a bit cut up from their break up 6 months ago. I really like him and hope this will move on to being a relationship.
Before Christmas he was phoning and texting every day, being real sweet. Now I am at home, 400 miles away and my phone is silent! No cute texts, calls...nothing!
So, do I delete his number and forget him, or chase him a bit in the hope he will come round? I don't even know what's changed? Is it just the busy Christmas period?
Thanks,
Claire x
VictorM's advice:
It's too soon to jump to any conclusions. You're right, with Christmas and all, it's very possible that he's occupied. But, you may ask, doesn't he have a minute or two to text? This is thinking like a girl, not like a guy. Guys are more single-threading in nature. If he made time to spend it with his family and friends, you're out of the picture for now. It's no reflection on you; that's just the way guys are.
Don't delete anything yet. Wait at least until sometime in January.
By Claire, 32, from London:
I have met the loveliest guy, we have been on 3 dates and we got on great. He told me his last girlfriend cheated on him and he wanted to take things slow as he was still a bit cut up from their break up 6 months ago. I really like him and hope this will move on to being a relationship.
Before Christmas he was phoning and texting every day, being real sweet. Now I am at home, 400 miles away and my phone is silent! No cute texts, calls...nothing!
So, do I delete his number and forget him, or chase him a bit in the hope he will come round? I don't even know what's changed? Is it just the busy Christmas period?
Thanks,
Claire x
VictorM's advice:
It's too soon to jump to any conclusions. You're right, with Christmas and all, it's very possible that he's occupied. But, you may ask, doesn't he have a minute or two to text? This is thinking like a girl, not like a guy. Guys are more single-threading in nature. If he made time to spend it with his family and friends, you're out of the picture for now. It's no reflection on you; that's just the way guys are.
Don't delete anything yet. Wait at least until sometime in January.
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