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Wednesday, December 26, 2007
He stood me up that night
Submitted on Tuesday, December 25, 2007
By Babydoll, 20, from USA:
Hi victor, I have a question for you.
I met this guy during my part time job during summer, he works at a store near the store I work at. We talked and flirted whenever he came to the store. Toward the end of the summer he found out that I had to go away for college and he asked for my number. But he never contact me until recently. He texted me and asked me when I am coming home and he wants to hang out with me. I was happy he texted and we just text back and forth to each other. My problem with him is that the other night he called me at midnight and asked me when I am free so we can hang out, he said he's free whenever and I was sorta mindless I asked him if he's free NOWand he said yes. But he stood me up that night. Later he texted and said he was sorry. I don't know what is he thinking, why does he confuse me so much? He only called once and when I call him he never picks up the phone. But he keeps telling me if I want to hang out I should give him a call. I dont know what to do with him, is he playing me?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know if he's playing you, but did he explain why he stood you up? Because unless there's a very good reason, I'm inclined to believe he's keeping contact with you to keep you around "for a rainy day," not because he's that much into you.
PS. Sorry, I don't respond by email.
By Babydoll, 20, from USA:
Hi victor, I have a question for you.
I met this guy during my part time job during summer, he works at a store near the store I work at. We talked and flirted whenever he came to the store. Toward the end of the summer he found out that I had to go away for college and he asked for my number. But he never contact me until recently. He texted me and asked me when I am coming home and he wants to hang out with me. I was happy he texted and we just text back and forth to each other. My problem with him is that the other night he called me at midnight and asked me when I am free so we can hang out, he said he's free whenever and I was sorta mindless I asked him if he's free NOWand he said yes. But he stood me up that night. Later he texted and said he was sorry. I don't know what is he thinking, why does he confuse me so much? He only called once and when I call him he never picks up the phone. But he keeps telling me if I want to hang out I should give him a call. I dont know what to do with him, is he playing me?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know if he's playing you, but did he explain why he stood you up? Because unless there's a very good reason, I'm inclined to believe he's keeping contact with you to keep you around "for a rainy day," not because he's that much into you.
PS. Sorry, I don't respond by email.
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