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Friday, November 30, 2007
We were really drunk and we hooked up
Submitted on Tuesday, November 27, 2007
By emily, 18, from NJ:
I had a crush on my close guy friend for a long time and it seemed like he liked me too. My friends thought he did, his friends thought he did, people would always ask me if we were dating, ect. A few weeks ago we were really drunk and we hooked up. He was really sweet, he stayed over in my dorm. The next night I stayed in his dorm, we were sober that night. I talked to him and we both decided a transition from friends to more would have to be gradual, but we haven't hooked up in a long time. What does this mean?
VictorM's advice:
When you agreed that a getting in romantic relationship with each other would be gradual, it means there is no relationship yet and as such, no "hooking up". I think he's just living to his end of the deal.
But I also think the mutually agreed "gradual" process was bullshit. Really, it was a way to avoid hurting the other's feelings. Come on, after knowing each other so well, if you both wanted a relationship you would have jumped right on it. Sounds to me like neither one of you really wants it but won't admit it.
By emily, 18, from NJ:
I had a crush on my close guy friend for a long time and it seemed like he liked me too. My friends thought he did, his friends thought he did, people would always ask me if we were dating, ect. A few weeks ago we were really drunk and we hooked up. He was really sweet, he stayed over in my dorm. The next night I stayed in his dorm, we were sober that night. I talked to him and we both decided a transition from friends to more would have to be gradual, but we haven't hooked up in a long time. What does this mean?
VictorM's advice:
When you agreed that a getting in romantic relationship with each other would be gradual, it means there is no relationship yet and as such, no "hooking up". I think he's just living to his end of the deal.
But I also think the mutually agreed "gradual" process was bullshit. Really, it was a way to avoid hurting the other's feelings. Come on, after knowing each other so well, if you both wanted a relationship you would have jumped right on it. Sounds to me like neither one of you really wants it but won't admit it.
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