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Friday, November 23, 2007
We basically talk and laugh all day instead of working
Submitted on Thursday, November 22, 2007
By Polly, 25, from canada:
Okay so I feel kinda lame...but there's this guy at work that I really like. I've just met him, but he's been there a few years longer than me. I sit next to him and we basically talk and laugh all day instead of working. I really like him, and I'm curious if he likes me too. He emails me funny comments in response to comments I've made in conversations, and has recently been pointing out "parallels" between us. I'm a little worried he thinks I'm too young, because he's 35, but it doesn't matter to me. Do I have a shot with him, or should I stop flirting now?
VictorM's advice:
I doubt that age difference is an issue with him and I assume you have as good a chance with him as anyone, assuming he's not married or have a girlfriend already.
But just because he engages with you in the kind or activities you mentioned does not mean that he has a romantic interest in you. And depending on the kind of company you work for, an office romance could be frowned upon and could be reason either one of you to lose your job.
Regardless... you should stop flirting at work. Nothing good is going to come out of it. Take your flirting to after hours and away from the office.
Okay so I feel kinda lame...but there's this guy at work that I really like. I've just met him, but he's been there a few years longer than me. I sit next to him and we basically talk and laugh all day instead of working. I really like him, and I'm curious if he likes me too. He emails me funny comments in response to comments I've made in conversations, and has recently been pointing out "parallels" between us. I'm a little worried he thinks I'm too young, because he's 35, but it doesn't matter to me. Do I have a shot with him, or should I stop flirting now?
VictorM's advice:
I doubt that age difference is an issue with him and I assume you have as good a chance with him as anyone, assuming he's not married or have a girlfriend already.
But just because he engages with you in the kind or activities you mentioned does not mean that he has a romantic interest in you. And depending on the kind of company you work for, an office romance could be frowned upon and could be reason either one of you to lose your job.
Regardless... you should stop flirting at work. Nothing good is going to come out of it. Take your flirting to after hours and away from the office.
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