Okay I've been talking to this guy for about 3 months now. The first time we hung out was at a keg party and we ended up making out. We exchanged numbers that night and he promised me he would call me and that we would hang out during the week. Well he didn't call me like he said he would. But he did end up calling me on Saturday night (a week later). And we hung out at a keg party again and we hooked up again. The same process happened again, he promised he would call and didn't until a week later. And it bothered me a little, but since we had just started seeing each other it wasn't a big deal. We ended up hooking up again that weekend. SAME PROCESS AGAIN. No call until the weekend. Okay, now I was starting to get frustrated cause he said he would call me and never did. So I ended up hooking up with him again the next weekend and then he asked me to be his girlfriend. I really really like this guy, but the no calling thing bothered me, so I told him that when he could prove to me that he will start calling me everyday and at least try to see me during the weekdays I would say yes to being his girlfriend. I can tell he was a little hurt that I didn't say yes, but I had to stand my ground. I thought since he asked me out that he would at least start calling. But no calls again until Saturday night. And that weekend we ended up having sex. It wasn't his first time, but it was mine...so that was a big deal for me. And I told him that he has to start calling me and we have to start seeing each other more and he said "I PROMISE I will call you and see you more. I really like you and I want all of this to work out for us." Well, NO CALLS AGAIN! Okay so now I was pissed. But when I see him I couldn't be mad at him cause when we are together he is always so sweet. Well, we ended up having sex again that same weekend. And he asked me out again. And I said that he needed to start calling more if he wanted me to be his girlfriend. And he said that he would start calling me more if I was his girlfriend. So I took a chance and said yes to being his girlfriend (thinking that I would get more phone calls). WELL NO CALLS AGAIN. So I don't know whether to stick with this guy or what? So my question to you is, why doesn't he call me if he says he likes me so much and wants to be with me? It just doesn't make sense. Do you think that all along he was just wanting to get in my pants?

VictorM's advice:

OooooKayyy... I really, really will try to be nice.

Yes, Kelsey, I think he only wanted to get in your pants. And he succeeded because you are too gullible and too forgiving.

He didn't call because talking to you is not what he's after. Besides, why should he call you? It's not like it made any difference that he didn't. You still accepted him and slept with him.

Don't stick with this guy.