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Thursday, November 15, 2007
Since this is a professional environment, what is appropriate?
Nita, 40, from OK, asks:
I work at a University. I am interested in a faculty member at the University (works in the same building). He smiles and speaks to me and I have noticed him looking at me. Since this is a professional environment, what is appropriate? Can I ask him out and should it be lunch at first?
VictorM's advice:
Assuming you have verified that he's available, yeah, asking him for lunch is good. Basically, you want to keep your attitude around work professional, and get away from the work environment if your intentions are not work-related.
You may want to proceed slowly because if you are misinterpreting his looks, it could become very awkward at work.
I work at a University. I am interested in a faculty member at the University (works in the same building). He smiles and speaks to me and I have noticed him looking at me. Since this is a professional environment, what is appropriate? Can I ask him out and should it be lunch at first?
VictorM's advice:
Assuming you have verified that he's available, yeah, asking him for lunch is good. Basically, you want to keep your attitude around work professional, and get away from the work environment if your intentions are not work-related.
You may want to proceed slowly because if you are misinterpreting his looks, it could become very awkward at work.
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