Submitted on Thursday, November 22, 2007
By Kelly, 15, from Wisconsin:

Hey there's this guy who I've had a crush on since he was in my class the beginning of this school year. And recently, within the past month or two, I found out he liked me back, but he just got out of an 8 month relationship where the girl treats him like crap, but then messes with his mind and will be nice for a day, then a real bitch for a week. We hung out and kind of fooled around a bit, and he seems genuine but tried to get me to do stuff. But his close friends who are my close friends tell me he sincerely does like me, but can't make a decision on what to do even though he straight up told me I would be the better girlfriend. Am I just another girl to be played by him? Or can he really not make up his mind from being attached?? helppp

VictorM's advice:

Well, you can't blame a horny teenage boy for trying stuff, and yes, it's possible he's still a little groggy from the previous twisted relationship and he just needs some time.

That being the case, you shouldn't place yourself in the middle yet. You can be friendly and supportive and still keep your distance from him. If he's horny he can use his hand, not you, and if he really likes you he should be the one trying to close the distance by chasing you and treating you with respect.