I have been dating a guy for a year now. We are serious about each other and love each other very much. There is one problem: he loves to search porn online. I have known about this for awhile and tried to ignore it but I can't anymore. I had confronted him on this and he denied it but I am no fool...he always searches teen porn and stuff. Our sex life hasn't really suffered however I am always the one initiating it. I am very attractive, young and in good shape. A lot of guys are attracted to me. I am now even resorting to dressing up as these "teens" -- I wear the mini skirts, short shits, high socks like the ones he likes and put my hair in pigtails. It is damaging my self-esteem. There is also something else. I recently also found out that he has been searching local escort services. Is that a signal he will cheat or does he consider this harmless curiosity? I am willing to do anything in bed and have done a lot -- I am no prude. I don't know what to do. I can't confront him on this issue about the escort because I found it while looking on his computer without his permission. I need advice, please, this is eating me up!

VictorM's advice:

Watching some porn is a fairly common practice among guys. That, by itself, doesn't mean there's a problem. But there are a few things about your submission that are quite disturbing:

-- He denies doing it, which means he's a deceitful individual who can't take responsibility for his own behavior;
-- He doesn't initiate sex, which might indicate a preference for a more perverted type of sex than you can provide (and no, it doesn't have to do with the acts of sex; it has to do with you not being a prostitute or a porn star);
-- You are trying too hard to please a guy at the sacrifice of your own self-esteem. This kind of appeasement just encourages his behavior and is a recipe for disaster. Stop doing it!
-- His search for escort services (really, prostitutes) not only supports the point I made above about his preference for certain types of women, but is indicative of a sexual like style (no, Bella, it's not just curiosity, you're being extra naive if you buy into that idea).

Your boyfriend is a male slut (in the worst sense of the word). Talking to him is a waste of your time. Expecting him to change is living in fantasy world. Continue being his girlfriend at your own risk.