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Friday, November 23, 2007
He likes me, but he also likes this other girl too
Submitted on Wednesday, November 21, 2007
By Nicole, 18, from Wisconsin:
I really like this boy and he likes me, but he also likes this other girl too. He said he likes me more, but he told me he wanted to hangout with her to see who he really wanted to be with more. He has never done stuff with her but he has with me. He tells me how much he really cares about me and how much he like me. I just don't like being second choice. If he likes me as much as he says he does then he should know. I just don't know what to do.
VictorM's advice:
It is in your best interest that he spend time with her so that he removes whatever lingering doubt he has. His situation is very common and it's quite good of him to tell you about it.
Give him some time but be ready to move on to someone new if he takes too long. He shouldn't need more than a couple weeks to decide and it should not be a back-and forth between the two girls. Meanwhile, be as nice as always but make yourself a little scarce; until he's ready to commit to you he is not your boyfriend and you should act accordingly.
I really like this boy and he likes me, but he also likes this other girl too. He said he likes me more, but he told me he wanted to hangout with her to see who he really wanted to be with more. He has never done stuff with her but he has with me. He tells me how much he really cares about me and how much he like me. I just don't like being second choice. If he likes me as much as he says he does then he should know. I just don't know what to do.
VictorM's advice:
It is in your best interest that he spend time with her so that he removes whatever lingering doubt he has. His situation is very common and it's quite good of him to tell you about it.
Give him some time but be ready to move on to someone new if he takes too long. He shouldn't need more than a couple weeks to decide and it should not be a back-and forth between the two girls. Meanwhile, be as nice as always but make yourself a little scarce; until he's ready to commit to you he is not your boyfriend and you should act accordingly.
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