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Tuesday, November 27, 2007
He had been in love with a married woman for 9 years
Submitted on Sunday, November 25, 2007
By Susan, 40, from Alabama:
The guy I've been seeing for a year recently told me that he had been in love with a married woman for 9 years. She has only recently started talking about leaving. (My personal thoughts are that she figured out he wasn't sitting at home and waiting for her to call). She calls him 6 times a day and he sees her whenever she decides she can come to see him. He told me if she wasn't in the picture and he hadn't been involved with her for so long it would be different with us. I asked him what that meant, and he said he needed some space...what does that mean?
VictorM's advice:
It means he's not into you, he's done pretending that he is, and you're history.
Better luck next time.
By Susan, 40, from Alabama:
The guy I've been seeing for a year recently told me that he had been in love with a married woman for 9 years. She has only recently started talking about leaving. (My personal thoughts are that she figured out he wasn't sitting at home and waiting for her to call). She calls him 6 times a day and he sees her whenever she decides she can come to see him. He told me if she wasn't in the picture and he hadn't been involved with her for so long it would be different with us. I asked him what that meant, and he said he needed some space...what does that mean?
VictorM's advice:
It means he's not into you, he's done pretending that he is, and you're history.
Better luck next time.
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