Wednesday, November 21, 2007
He doesn't contact me out of college times
Submitted on Tuesday, November 20, 2007
By Rosie, 19, from Wembley:
There's this guy I like...and I've known him for about 2 months now. Other people keep getting the impression that we're 'together' because we always seem to be together, always hanging out and stuff at college. But he doesn't contact me out of college times so I'm not sure whether he likes me or not. One minute he'll seem so keen to talk to me and will be phoning me to meet him at lunch and even walk with me to the station. We'll get on really well.. and then he'll suddenly switch and try and get away from me...which is confusing. He gets jealous when I talk to other guys and tends to try and get my attention away from them. He even gets funny about certain things like what I wear..the other day we went into the local shop round the corner from college and the shop keeper thought something was up because he asked him in front of me to take me out!! So he must have been able to sense the chemistry or something and at first he kept quiet but the shop keeper kept on persisting (completely embarrassing me) and then he confessed he had a girlfriend. But he's never mentioned her before, and after we walked out from the shop he still never mentioned her. I don't know what to think because I'm begining to really like him. But now I'm thinking I should back off from him. But when I do...he contacts me...what should I do?? And he has a girlfriend!
VictorM's advice:
Ask him point blank if he does have a girlfriend. If he says yes, you should back off. If he says no, then continue your friendship as you are. Maybe he's not interested in taking you out at this time. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you, it may just mean he wants to take things slow and know more about you before investing his feelings in a relationship.
There's this guy I like...and I've known him for about 2 months now. Other people keep getting the impression that we're 'together' because we always seem to be together, always hanging out and stuff at college. But he doesn't contact me out of college times so I'm not sure whether he likes me or not. One minute he'll seem so keen to talk to me and will be phoning me to meet him at lunch and even walk with me to the station. We'll get on really well.. and then he'll suddenly switch and try and get away from me...which is confusing. He gets jealous when I talk to other guys and tends to try and get my attention away from them. He even gets funny about certain things like what I wear..the other day we went into the local shop round the corner from college and the shop keeper thought something was up because he asked him in front of me to take me out!! So he must have been able to sense the chemistry or something and at first he kept quiet but the shop keeper kept on persisting (completely embarrassing me) and then he confessed he had a girlfriend. But he's never mentioned her before, and after we walked out from the shop he still never mentioned her. I don't know what to think because I'm begining to really like him. But now I'm thinking I should back off from him. But when I do...he contacts me...what should I do?? And he has a girlfriend!
VictorM's advice:
Ask him point blank if he does have a girlfriend. If he says yes, you should back off. If he says no, then continue your friendship as you are. Maybe he's not interested in taking you out at this time. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you, it may just mean he wants to take things slow and know more about you before investing his feelings in a relationship.
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He even gets funny about certain things like what I wear...
Uhhhh...this raises a red flag in my opinion. He sounds rather possessive. Don't confuse it with like/love. Sure, the attention is nice on one level, but he sounds waaay too jealous and possessive. And you're not even DATING yet!
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Uhhhh...this raises a red flag in my opinion. He sounds rather possessive. Don't confuse it with like/love. Sure, the attention is nice on one level, but he sounds waaay too jealous and possessive. And you're not even DATING yet!
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