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Friday, November 23, 2007

 

Feelings that he did not recognize

Submitted on Wednesday, November 21, 2007
By Kandace, 35, from Ohioo:

Hey there, Victor, just wondering how come the guy that I am seeing after being intimate with him, he seemed to not be around for awhile and then told me that things were complicated and that he was full of feelings that he did not recognize. Okay, as a woman, I don't understand how a person can NOT recognize their feelings. What is UP with my guy? Please fill me in, as I have no clue.

Thanks,

Kandy

VictorM's advice:

Before you were intimate it was all fun and games. Now, things have gotten serious and he's not ready for that seriousness. Saying he had feelings he didn't recognize was just a round-about-way of telling you that he's not ready for serious stuff with you.

Expect to see less and less of him until he totally disappears. He's about to become very busy at work or be facing some family emergency. I'm telling you this ahead of time so that you recognize it when it happens.

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