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Thursday, November 29, 2007
Confidential To Annonymous
You crack me up. :) I'm being cryptic on purpose. I hope you understand which points I'm addressing.
If I refer to the girls I dated (past tense), I'm not including the girl I'm currently dating.
He might have realized that if you took exception to something that maybe other people could feel the same way if they came across the same information. So his action may have been triggered by your comments but not targeted at you. Women far too regularly place themselves at the center of a guy's universe when in reality, there are other people and other motivations in his life.
We all have moments of doubt or insecurity. Those personal thoughts, taken out of context, can be easily misunderstood. Sometimes, under certain moods or personal conditions, we have thoughts that we may not share 99% of the time. And sometimes, we just choose poorly worded ways of expressing ourselves. Give him some slack there.
Being where he has been emotionally, he's taking solid steps to get to you know better. But it's a slow process, and one that he may even be afraid to accelerate.
If I refer to the girls I dated (past tense), I'm not including the girl I'm currently dating.
He might have realized that if you took exception to something that maybe other people could feel the same way if they came across the same information. So his action may have been triggered by your comments but not targeted at you. Women far too regularly place themselves at the center of a guy's universe when in reality, there are other people and other motivations in his life.
We all have moments of doubt or insecurity. Those personal thoughts, taken out of context, can be easily misunderstood. Sometimes, under certain moods or personal conditions, we have thoughts that we may not share 99% of the time. And sometimes, we just choose poorly worded ways of expressing ourselves. Give him some slack there.
Being where he has been emotionally, he's taking solid steps to get to you know better. But it's a slow process, and one that he may even be afraid to accelerate.
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