I'm still stuck on the same problem with the same guy. He contacted me a week ago via a text message, to which I replied, and then I haven't heard anything from him since, and I haven't contacted him either because I don't want it to look like I'm chasing him. He sent a message to one of our close mutual friends basically saying to her that he got his driving licence, and she replied with a "that's great! Luce will be happy! ;)" And then he replied to her with a "why would she be happy? and whats that wink for?"

She laughed so hard at this message and so she had to call me and tell me what happened. I'm left feeling really confused, because firstly I don't know whether he's just really slow and stupid and didn't quite pick up the hint that she was suggesting that I like him, or if he was fishing for her to say that "lucy likes you!!"

Any suggestions please?

VictorM's advice:

Well, he could be dense or he could be playing ignorant, I don't know which one it is but it doesn't matter because what's important is that your name was mentioned and if he wasn't connecting the dots before he's a step closer now.

Send him a text message, tell him you heard he got his driver's license, congratulate him, and say you're counting on a ride from him.

Looking at your last question, you turned him down a couple times. You have to go a little out of your way to get him thinking he stands a chance with you.