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Sunday, October 21, 2007
Pure torture
jessica, 24, from orlando, asks:
Thanks again for answering my question Victor. I truly appreciate it. I guess you could be right. I'm usually good at seeing if a guy might be doing that. Deflecting attention I mean. But seriously, Dan (that's his name) should win an Oscar. But, I'm gonna go and take your advice. I'm usually not really assertive. Should I be? Or should I follow his lead at work and remain aloof. It's hard working so close to someone behind a bar for hours and pretend they aren't there. It's pure torture.
VictorM's advice:
Definitely keep your feelings out of the work environment. While at work, work. Not only do you jeopardize your job otherwise, but you also jeopardize his.
Outside of work it's a different story. Make all the moves you want. But try them when you're sober. :-p
Thanks again for answering my question Victor. I truly appreciate it. I guess you could be right. I'm usually good at seeing if a guy might be doing that. Deflecting attention I mean. But seriously, Dan (that's his name) should win an Oscar. But, I'm gonna go and take your advice. I'm usually not really assertive. Should I be? Or should I follow his lead at work and remain aloof. It's hard working so close to someone behind a bar for hours and pretend they aren't there. It's pure torture.
VictorM's advice:
Definitely keep your feelings out of the work environment. While at work, work. Not only do you jeopardize your job otherwise, but you also jeopardize his.
Outside of work it's a different story. Make all the moves you want. But try them when you're sober. :-p
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