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Monday, October 22, 2007
My guy said he didn't like me like that
Alyssa, 16, from Long Beach, asks:
Hey Vic, it's me again, and to answer your last question yes, w/e does mean whatever. lol
And my question does come with a story but don't worry it's a small one. So my friend played detective for me and basically my guy said he didn't like me like that but when the question came of would he give me chance, he said quote "yea, probably". Now my friend says he was probably scared to tell her the truth being that he thought she might tell me. Now what did that mean? He said I was pretty and I was a cool friend but I'm not sure if that's saying much. What do you get from this and what should be my next move?
And once again thanks for your advice:)
VictorM's advice:
My advice is still the same as last time:
Sounds like he likes you but that doesn't mean he's ready for a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, so he'll be friendly, stay close, and who knows, maybe he'll make a move when he's ready. Boys do take their time making a move so you have to be patient. Everything else is just you over analyzing what is very normal behavior for a boy.
Which part of "you have to be patient" didn't you understand? :)
He's trying to keep you and your friends at bay without pushing you too far. To me, it means you stand a good chance with him when he's ready for it. Meanwhile, continue to be friends with him and... BE PATIENT!
Hey Vic, it's me again, and to answer your last question yes, w/e does mean whatever. lol
And my question does come with a story but don't worry it's a small one. So my friend played detective for me and basically my guy said he didn't like me like that but when the question came of would he give me chance, he said quote "yea, probably". Now my friend says he was probably scared to tell her the truth being that he thought she might tell me. Now what did that mean? He said I was pretty and I was a cool friend but I'm not sure if that's saying much. What do you get from this and what should be my next move?
And once again thanks for your advice:)
VictorM's advice:
My advice is still the same as last time:
Sounds like he likes you but that doesn't mean he's ready for a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, so he'll be friendly, stay close, and who knows, maybe he'll make a move when he's ready. Boys do take their time making a move so you have to be patient. Everything else is just you over analyzing what is very normal behavior for a boy.
Which part of "you have to be patient" didn't you understand? :)
He's trying to keep you and your friends at bay without pushing you too far. To me, it means you stand a good chance with him when he's ready for it. Meanwhile, continue to be friends with him and... BE PATIENT!
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