Jessica, 24, from Orlando, asks:

Thanks for responding Victor.

I didn't ommit anything but felt guilty anything had happened at all. Thanks for telling me that he wouldn't think that. And as for the drinking part, well, to be frank in the world of bartending it is pretty much like that. Here's the update. Since that night where I wrote you I can't stop thinking about him. I mean it's scaring me. I can't remember when I felt this way about someone and I'm nervous. We hung out again where he told me that he thought I was acting weird around him (figures) and I think we pretty much cleared up that we do both like each other. I went to his house again ending in the same result. Him wanting me to stay and me leaving after a kiss. Although how I managed to get out (again) is beyond me. I thought for sure I would melt into a puddle on his driveway after that kiss. I saw him at work the day after that and he was so aloof and standoffish that I become the same way. Which confuses me because he clearly told me that he doesn't like when I do that. So I feel as if I'm back at square one with this guy. I can't tell if he's shy or immature? I mean he is 11 years older than me. Basically when we are drinking his body language, everything about him reads that he likes me. I have his full attention off of work. At work he's the total opposite. He'll joke around with other employees and kind of ignore me. So what do you think this means Victor? He has me really confused.

VictorM's advice:

He likes you and he knows it but he doesn't want others to know it, so in an attempt to deflect attention from you two he over-compensates by ignoring you.

He's probably just trying to prevent rumors from spreading at work.