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Tuesday, September 25, 2007
She made a promise to god to not have sex
Alexis, 35, from New Jersey, asks:
I have been dating this guy off and on for a year. We are very attracted to one another. The problem is I made a promise to God that I would not have sex again until I was married. When we're together we are very physical and we want to go all the way, but he says that if we slip up then our relationship is over. What can I do to keep the relationship going without slipping up?
VictorM's advice:
I don't think you'd want to hear what I have to say about promises such as yours. So I'd say you came to the wrong place for advice. You should seek the advice of your religious leader.
I have been dating this guy off and on for a year. We are very attracted to one another. The problem is I made a promise to God that I would not have sex again until I was married. When we're together we are very physical and we want to go all the way, but he says that if we slip up then our relationship is over. What can I do to keep the relationship going without slipping up?
VictorM's advice:
I don't think you'd want to hear what I have to say about promises such as yours. So I'd say you came to the wrong place for advice. You should seek the advice of your religious leader.
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Dating off and on? He says if y'all slip up that the relationship is over?
Doesn't sound like a very stable or mature relationship. What's there to be afraid of? That if you have sex with him that you'll turn into ....a slut? Please. You're 35 years old. Grow up, life is short, and take pleasure in being human. And why should sex be a relationship killer? Seems like it would just make it better. As long as the relationship is stable and caring. Would he just...walk out the door and never look back after the "slip up?" Let him go.
Not have sex again until you're married?
So you've had sex before?! Even worse! Gah! What, like you need to re-virginify yourself before marriage? And is this really the guy you want to marry? To wait for? Ask yourself that.
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Doesn't sound like a very stable or mature relationship. What's there to be afraid of? That if you have sex with him that you'll turn into ....a slut? Please. You're 35 years old. Grow up, life is short, and take pleasure in being human. And why should sex be a relationship killer? Seems like it would just make it better. As long as the relationship is stable and caring. Would he just...walk out the door and never look back after the "slip up?" Let him go.
Not have sex again until you're married?
So you've had sex before?! Even worse! Gah! What, like you need to re-virginify yourself before marriage? And is this really the guy you want to marry? To wait for? Ask yourself that.
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