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Saturday, September 29, 2007
She has been into this guy for ages
Amber, 22, from cape town, asks:
I have been into this guy for ages, he is the only guy that I'm interested in. He finally came to speak to me, we spent the night together but I refused to even kiss him.[ha] He then asked one of my close girlfriends why I wouldn't kiss him and if I didn't like him. She told him that I wanted a relationship!! What a disaster!!Now he thinks that I'm the clingy, needy type. The irony is that I don't even have time for a relationship. What do I do? Whenever we see each other, we both get so nervous and there is this awkward silence. So much time has passed now and for me to try and explain that I don't really want a relationship seems so childish to me. Especially seeing that we can barely communicate with each other. Help?
VictorM's advice:
You've been interested in him for ages, you spent the night together and you didn't even kiss him? What the hell was that about? And how do you know what he's thinking now? Don't assume.
Forget everything that happened before. Next time you see him, ask him out to dinner or a movie or something. Talk about fun stuff. And at the end of the night, for crying out loud, kiss the guy!
I have been into this guy for ages, he is the only guy that I'm interested in. He finally came to speak to me, we spent the night together but I refused to even kiss him.[ha] He then asked one of my close girlfriends why I wouldn't kiss him and if I didn't like him. She told him that I wanted a relationship!! What a disaster!!Now he thinks that I'm the clingy, needy type. The irony is that I don't even have time for a relationship. What do I do? Whenever we see each other, we both get so nervous and there is this awkward silence. So much time has passed now and for me to try and explain that I don't really want a relationship seems so childish to me. Especially seeing that we can barely communicate with each other. Help?
VictorM's advice:
You've been interested in him for ages, you spent the night together and you didn't even kiss him? What the hell was that about? And how do you know what he's thinking now? Don't assume.
Forget everything that happened before. Next time you see him, ask him out to dinner or a movie or something. Talk about fun stuff. And at the end of the night, for crying out loud, kiss the guy!
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