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Friday, September 28, 2007
Pathetic-ness on his part
Dot, 22, from NY, asks:
What's it mean when your ex boyfriend hooks up with one of his ex girlfriends shortly after you've broken up? A girl that he swore up and down he hated and thought was repulsive? Is it a reality check for me, or pathetic-ness on his part?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know what you mean by "reality check for me" but in any case, I don't see how who he dates now is any reflection on you. You two broke up and he's now free to fuck up again if he so wishes.
Hate and love are not opposites; they invoke very similar passions. That should have been a clue to you that he wasn't over her. His harsh words about her were a way to try and free himself from having feelings for her. Obviously, it didn't work.
What's it mean when your ex boyfriend hooks up with one of his ex girlfriends shortly after you've broken up? A girl that he swore up and down he hated and thought was repulsive? Is it a reality check for me, or pathetic-ness on his part?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know what you mean by "reality check for me" but in any case, I don't see how who he dates now is any reflection on you. You two broke up and he's now free to fuck up again if he so wishes.
Hate and love are not opposites; they invoke very similar passions. That should have been a clue to you that he wasn't over her. His harsh words about her were a way to try and free himself from having feelings for her. Obviously, it didn't work.
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