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Sunday, September 30, 2007
Is he just being polite?
Lindsay, 15, from California, asks:
So, I went to homecoming with just a group of my friends. I was having a blast. Things only got better when a guy asked me to dance (and he was pretty cute, too). We danced 3 or 4 times. Before he left, he asked for my number, which I gave him. He called me two days later, thanking me for dancing with him. We chatted for a bit and I kinda expected him to ask me out. He just said that he looked forward to seeing me sometime, like at the next football game. So... what does this mean? Does he like me, or is he just being polite?
VictorM's advice:
Sounds like he likes you, in a sensible guy sorta way. Meaning, he likes you enough to want to keep in touch with you but he's not going to limit his options during this time period. He'll move very slowly, getting a better feel for what kind of person you are and how his feelings, if any, develop. Meanwhile, he may even be checking out other girls.
Smart boy.
So, I went to homecoming with just a group of my friends. I was having a blast. Things only got better when a guy asked me to dance (and he was pretty cute, too). We danced 3 or 4 times. Before he left, he asked for my number, which I gave him. He called me two days later, thanking me for dancing with him. We chatted for a bit and I kinda expected him to ask me out. He just said that he looked forward to seeing me sometime, like at the next football game. So... what does this mean? Does he like me, or is he just being polite?
VictorM's advice:
Sounds like he likes you, in a sensible guy sorta way. Meaning, he likes you enough to want to keep in touch with you but he's not going to limit his options during this time period. He'll move very slowly, getting a better feel for what kind of person you are and how his feelings, if any, develop. Meanwhile, he may even be checking out other girls.
Smart boy.
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