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Saturday, September 29, 2007
He calls her "baby" and she calls him "babe"
Danielle, 21, from San Jose, CA, asks:
I have been talking to/dating this guy for about 2 and 1/2 months. We recently started being a lot more intimate. He calls me "baby" and I call him "babe." I even already met his family. We're not officially "boyfriend/girlfriend", but he has mentioned it and seems like he thinks we are headed in that direction. I agree. My question is, I'm out of town for work, and he wants to come visit me... do you think this is a good idea? I mean it would be like a mini-vacation. I would like his company and everything, but is it too early for that? I just don't know if things are happening too fast?
VictorM's advice:
Sounds like a good idea to me. You've been seeing each other for long enough and this time alone together will test how you relate to the other over longer hours in the day. I see no downside to it. You have been seeing each other long enough and your tone with each other indicates a level of comfort that signals readiness to test the waters a little deeper.
Oh, and don't be silly, you are boyfriend/girlfriend. Somethings don't need to be said.
I have been talking to/dating this guy for about 2 and 1/2 months. We recently started being a lot more intimate. He calls me "baby" and I call him "babe." I even already met his family. We're not officially "boyfriend/girlfriend", but he has mentioned it and seems like he thinks we are headed in that direction. I agree. My question is, I'm out of town for work, and he wants to come visit me... do you think this is a good idea? I mean it would be like a mini-vacation. I would like his company and everything, but is it too early for that? I just don't know if things are happening too fast?
VictorM's advice:
Sounds like a good idea to me. You've been seeing each other for long enough and this time alone together will test how you relate to the other over longer hours in the day. I see no downside to it. You have been seeing each other long enough and your tone with each other indicates a level of comfort that signals readiness to test the waters a little deeper.
Oh, and don't be silly, you are boyfriend/girlfriend. Somethings don't need to be said.
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